Do you think it's weird?

[CyBot]

I was just thinking how much I hate being Bi. I'd like to be either straight, or gay. Being both just makes me feel weird :l

Thoughts from other Bis?

[cutepeanut1991]

Yes

[Peter]

"but, if you're "Bi" then you're considered twice as lucky! I heard that somewhere, on TV I think.

[CyBot]

Lol. Nice.

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I think I'm getting some where. Sure, I think both guys and girls are hot but I won't ever date a girl again unless she's someone I love more than the first girl I loved.

I doubt that will happen.

On MySpace I list myself as gay, but I don't know if it's right.

So I'm confused. Am I bi or gay?

[Seirei]

I'm having this same issue. I prefer guys more, that's for sure, but I also sorta would like to fall in love with a girl.

[CyBot]

Yeah, I prefer guys, but, I think I'm gay. Like, there's this girl who really likes me, and I kinda like her, but there's this really REALLY cute guy that I love. I just dunno who I should fall for. Right now, I'm kinda going for the guy.

[Seirei]

I decided to stick with guys, since girls sorta...don't turn me on.

[Trublu]

The key is to let yourself be open about it. It is almost tougher than being "one or the other", but we cannot control attraction, so it really isn't all that surprising that people are attracted to both sexes. It actually makes more sense to me to be attracted to both than just one or the other.

It may feel a little weird, but if it feels right to you, then go for it.

[CyBot]

Yeah, I guess your right.

It doesn't matter now anyone, he's most likely a homophobe. At least he claims he is, although he could just be doing that to cover it up.

But I think that's more me just hoping he is. I just dunno anymore :/