"I feel gender-Meh"

[Bard Child]

Hello folks have no idea where this would go but I figure the general queer would work.

I'm bi-gender biologicly female and married to a man. So generally I am female primary and male secondary. However gender is something that really isn't so concrete. I feel right in my female skin, so it's not like I am not in the right body. I want to bare children, breastfeed and my woman body isn't cumbersum or awkward. I can't see myself flat (well completely) or with a thingy.

However I don't feel, "wholly" woman, I do feel male a lot of the time. Sometimes I feel like I think more like a man than a woman though I believe that because of my warpped neurology (lol autism)

So questions for topic,
Anyone out there feel more gender-meh than anything?
Does it make dating or courting people hard when you don't feel connected to one gender only?
Do you not care anymore what gender you appear to be or want to be?

Discuss.

[theKyra ღ]

I've always been a bit like that. As a little kid I wanted to be a guy: I hung out with the guys, I played with the guys, and mostly avoided the girls. That changed when I hit fourth or fifth grade, at which point I started to switch over to just hanging out with girls. Funny, I used to fear the idea of having breasts, and now I can't imagine being flat-chested. Haha.

Even so, I identify well with guys and generally get along better with them than I do with other girls. Which I find odd, but maybe it's just me. Now, I'm kinda torn between the fact that I definitely don't want to be physically male, but I kinda think like one. Oh yeah, did I mention that I tend to dress in guy clothes? Pink, dresses, skirts... ick. I'll stick with my hoodies and jeans, thanks. x3

So yeah. I definitely feel gender-meh.

[Bard Child]

Now, I'm kinda torn between the fact that I definitely don't want to be physically male, but I kinda think like one.

Thats the general concensus with me. I don't want to be phsycially male but I am still male minded. Which is great because I can relate to few FTM men but sometimes I feel I should just shut up because they are obviously male I'm feel like pretender